Thursday, December 31, 2020

Bad Blood

I have a small circle of friends for a reason.  Within that small circle, seems I have a frenemy.  Perhaps I can chalk it up to that person being very young and him not knowing better.  However, he's "grown" so he should be able to handle a little confrontation.  Besides, he is the one who started it.  Being as it is the end of the year, and I don't want to go into next year with bad blood, I've decided to write it out instead.  
I've been working a lot lately since the holiday season has started and haven't had any time for my small circle of friends.  I did get out the last two nights to chat and have some wine.  The first night, the frenemy and one of my original best friends kidnapped me!  We had makeup and wine night! Each of us had fun and it was muchly needed.  
Fast-forward two days, I went to one of my original best friend's house to do the same thing, minus the makeup.  
She brought to my attention that the frenemy told her to "watch her stuff around me".  
I was flabbergasted!
Mind you I've known her for much longer than the frenemy.  Still, I would never steal from them. 
Trust me there have been a million times I could have but I'm not that type of person.  I cherish my friends, even if we don't speak for a while, my best friends will always have my heart.  
To those people, they know who they are!
Anyway, I guess I was feeling some type of way because I felt like the frenemy was trying to come in between me and my best friend but she assured me she's known me long enough to know my character and she knows I would never.  
I've asked both of my best friends for advice and have decided to let it go.  Like I said, I don't want to go into this new year with bad energy.  And I'd like to encourage you to do that same.  Let the bad energy go.  Do not let your past reflect your future.
Happy New Year!

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