A few days later

 Okay so if I'm being truthful with yall and myself, I'd say Day 2 I did the full youtube video.  

Day 3 I went to my apartment's gym and did a 2-mile walk while holding in my core.  For those of you who don't know what that means, ...  sucking your stomach in and holding that gut in until you can't no more.  Of course, you wanna breathe.  Breathe in from your nose and out through your mouth.  I also wear a jacket and pants so I can really sweat that fat out.  😂

And day 3 well I didn't go😓.  On day 4 I didn't go either. Day 5 the same.  I was very disappointed in myself.  

Day 6 I don't know what got into me but I had more energy and decided to go back to the gym and do the 2-mile walk.  I felt the burn!!!  😃

Today, Day 7,  I was being lazy and I decided to drag myself to the gym and did the 2-mile walk.  I know it's not much but I figured I let my body get used to being active again.  The quarantine, as well as the holidays, have taken their toll, and now it's time to get that bod back.😉

Come on Day 8. Gym in the afternoon and then getting ready to go to Houston to see my family.  Last weekend was shit.  I hope this weekend will be awesome!

Until then

Day One

 Okay, everyone, I'm definitely feeling the fat that I've gained over the holiday season.  Let me tell you, that little 10-minute workout kicked my ass!!😂

I had a slow start and maybe I should have stretched before but I just straight into it.  I will be feeling that tomorrow.  Chicken and broccoli are what I had for lunch before my work out.  Or am I suppose to do my workout before I eat?... As you can see I don't know what the fuck I'm doing but at least I'm trying.

As for the workout routine, I will be using for the next couple of months.  I went on youtube and searched for the best workout for abs.  A 12-minute video came up from someone named Thenx.  And let me tell you Chris Heria, the workout instructor is so fine!  His body is on point!  

Now yall know I'm not perfect, needless to say, I didn't even get through the whole video before I collapsed in exhaustion. 😅😂 I'm not gonna give up!!  I'm determined to do this!  Mental note; I should not smoke before I do my workout too.  I was so exhausted that I took a 2-hour nap after.  Don't know if that gonna affect anything but maybe yall give me some insight on that.  So guys, Day one done even if I made some mistakes.  Tomorrow is a new day and it will be better!

Ps.  Is it normal to think about all the food I can't have all day long?😰

Bye 2020! Hello 2021!

 And just like that, Christmas has come and gone!  In a mere 4 hours, 2020 will be too.  As we ponder what 2021 has in store for us, I want to hear your New Years Resolutions!  Comment in the comments

Mine, you may ask, is simple.  Not gonna go crazy with a lot because I never stick to them.  

It's simple, to lose weight.  If I don't do it now, I'm never gonna do it.  So now that my seasonal job is over, I'm going to make myself get up and use the gym we have in our apartments.  At least do some sit-ups every day.  Gotta get rid of this fat! Of course, it comes with eating right as well.  I'm sticking to Chicken and fish!  If anyone has any food advice, please feel free to write to me in the comments.  

I will be recording my progress and maybe posting it on Instagram if I feel confident enough.  I've always been insecure about my body so hopefully, I can inspire someone, anyone to do the same.  Wish me luck!

And I shall wish you luck on your new year's resolutions as well!  Don't forget to follow me on Instagram @lovablelilamy

 And Remember!  No Excuses!!!!

Happy New Year! 

Bad Blood

I have a small circle of friends for a reason.  Within that small circle, seems I have a frenemy.  Perhaps I can chalk it up to that person being very young and him not knowing better.  However, he's "grown" so he should be able to handle a little confrontation.  Besides, he is the one who started it.  Being as it is the end of the year, and I don't want to go into next year with bad blood, I've decided to write it out instead.  

I've been working a lot lately since the holiday season has started and haven't had any time for my small circle of friends.  I did get out the last two nights to chat and have some wine.  The first night, the frenemy and one of my original best friends kidnapped me!  We had makeup and wine night! Each of us had fun and it was muchly needed.  

Fast-forward two days, I went to one of my original best friend's house to do the same thing, minus the makeup.  

She brought to my attention that the frenemy told her to "watch her stuff around me".  

I was flabbergasted!

Mind you I've known her for much longer than the frenemy.  Still, I would never steal from them. 

Trust me there have been a million times I could have but I'm not that type of person.  I cherish my friends, even if we don't speak for a while, my best friends will always have my heart.  

To those people, they know who they are!

Anyway, I guess I was feeling some type of way because I felt like the frenemy was trying to come in between me and my best friend but she assured me she's known me long enough to know my character and she knows I would never.  

I've asked both of my best friends for advice and have decided to let it go.  Like I said, I don't want to go into this new year with bad energy.  And I'd like to encourage you to do that same.  Let the bad energy go.  Do not let your past reflect your future.

Happy New Year!

Its Been A While

Sorry I've been M.I.A.  Just haven't been the best version of myself so no inspiration to write.  I have even been a grinch for most of the holiday season which is not like me at all!  

However, there is nothing like Christmas movies, a glass of wine, and sitting by the fire to make your heart swell with the Christmas spirit!  My daughter is currently making smores! Yummy!  

Like me, I'm sure many of you haven't had the best year but being as it is the holidays, we must endure! 

The Christmas spirit has given me hope!  I know that sounds cheesy but during these dire times, a little bit of hope never hurt anyone right?

So, let's not let the negativity ruin our Christmas cheer.  And let us not forget Christmas is not about the presents, Its about the warm fuzzy feeling you have when you're with the people you love.

Let the Christmas movies and songs warm your heart like they did the Grinches and mine!

What's your favorite Christmas song?

Mine is O Holy Night

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Oh and one more thing, don't forget to wish our lord and savior a Happy Birthday.

Happy Holidays!

Covid 19 update

Here's an update about the COVID 19 in my household.
My daughter and I are still fine.  We don't have any symptoms at all.  Everyone that has come over has not gotten sick.  And yes we tell everyone that comes in, they come in at their own risk.  Other than that everyone has been normal.  Any questions?
Let me know in the comments below.

Covid 19 Positive

It is with a heavy heart that I announce my little brother is COVID 19 positive.  Seeing as how I live with him, and even though he's quarantined in his room, I can only assume we all have it. 

He has shown symptoms of a regular cold, then he told us he lost his sense of smell.  Which prompted him to go get tested.  

I think everyone has gotten sick within these last few weeks.  It started with my mother-in-law, then my boyfriend got sick, my other little brother got sick after him and now the one who tested positive is getting over his "cold".   I call it a cold because honestly, he's not dying.  Thank god because I know some people need to go to the hospital for it.  And prayers for those who are in the hospital.

My Daugther and I are fine.  We have been to the beach multiple times, been back and forth to Houston, and been around Conroe.  I make her drink these packets called Emergen C. It's Vitamin C  powder; you can put it in whatever drink you want.  We usually just put it in a water bottle.  And we are constantly washing our hands. 

Other than that I've been drinking and smoking a lot since the quarantine started but we don't have to elaborate on that. 
Until we meet again.